11 Mar If you want love…

You need to choose love. All the way. 

Reflection has been my main thing in life. And today is not different then others. Sitting in my apartment with the balcony doors open, it’s Saturday and I just had breakfast with someone dear. Yesterday someone told me that there has been a lot of violence in my home country Sweden. Rapes, killings and fights. I also heard that the attitude among young Swedish girls are getting harder. My peaceful country is getting a little bit rougher then before. It’s not safe as it once was. 

Foto: My balcony

In Latin countries the attitude always has been a little more raw then in our Nordic countries. But they are also much more passionate then us up in the north. We usually joke about it, that it is the darkness and the cold that make us more shy and withdrawn. We don’t like to fight and make noise.  And that it is the sun and the chilly in their food, that heats the latinos. In every way. 

Foto: Sun coming through a glass of pure olive oil. 

But regardless where we are brought up we are in a time in history where the human being has to choose. And to take responsibility over the choices we make. Because it hit us right back faster then ever. What ever we choose.  As to always take an easy way out, blaming others for your own bad behavior doesn’t work. Never before in my life of 50 years on this blue planet I see now how the good or the bad choices we make gives a kickback at once.  

We have to understand that what ever we use as an excuse of bad behavior as for example: revenge, ” teach others a lesson”, chicken out, blame shifting or ” this is how I’m brought up” doesn’t work. Because life just look at the energy you send out and hit it right back at you. Often from a totally different direction than were you were looking. 

It’s all about energy. If you give small pinches in the side to others or a big smack in the face. The person you are giving this to crunch in their energy. They fold within to protect them self. The universe feels this and are your protector in a way. So it’s just says, ” Payback time on this one guys. What she gives we deliver 📦 ” 

Foto: There is no way around it. I’m sorry..

I read an article about how to make success in work. It demands hard work. And it’s true, but that is when it comes to everything. Relationships and family too. 
 I think that the world is upside down because alot of us make big efforts at work. But a mess at home and around us. 

If you want your business, account at the bank and your success over all to grow when it comes to love, happiness, beauty and health. It demands hard work and good choices. And everything you put in to it counts. Good or bad. Your ” salary ” will show in the end of the month. On YOUR account. 

Foto: Choices… a healthy body needs good choices and hard work. 

I look at my plants. In the heat of the Mallorca sun I need to care for them every day. I have to put them in the shade from the strong springtime sun. I need to water them and talk to them. Because they really respond to my care or diss care at ones. If I want love in my life. I need to choose love. All the way! Giving someone a smile. Lifting people up instead of making them smaller. Open the door, giving a good tip, saying thank you thank you… 🙏🏼 And water my plants. 

Foto: Tasha Tudor… walking around in her own garden. Blooming from the love she given them through the years. 

Dearest one. You have to make a choice EVERY day, and leave the past behind you. If you want love and care, If you want beauty and health, if you want money and success… You need to work for it every day. Big or small. It always kick back at you. In a good way… or bad. It’s the law of the universe and no way around it. YOU choose.